Where Arousal, Willingness and Desire Meet
Since the inception of sexual science, just as was the case with modern Western medicine, we have studied data about sexuality, how we respond sexually, and how we treat sexual issues based largely on...
View ArticleHow Microaggressions Shut Down Desire
I have two women’s groups right now and in both of them I am struck by how much difficulty surrounds the topic of desire. I hear women talk about how hard it is to give to themselves, and how hard it...
View ArticleThe 5 Most Common Orgasm Issues That Keep Us From Our Pleasure
There are about five super common ways women hold themselves back from pleasure and orgasm—I would say so common, that if they were considered a public health issue (which is debatable) they would be...
View ArticleExcerpt from Woman On Fire: Pilar’s Journey to Her Sexual Voice
I am about to release my second book, Woman On Fire: Nine Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence. This week I want to share with you one of the women’s stories...
View ArticleHow to Plan the Perfect Sexcation
It’s summer and everyone is scattering on their adventures. Sometimes you don’t merely need a vacation where you can have fun and relax, you need a sexcation where you take time out of your busy...
View ArticleThe Secret to Talking Openly About Sex
My path as an educator included earning a Masters in Human Sexuality Education, but you don’t have to go get a graduate degree in human sexuality to learn how to really talk openly about sex. Anyone...
View ArticleSexual Embodiment VS Technology
“By the time I put the kids to bed and finish everything I’ve been working on, the last thing I want to do is be sexual with my husband,” she said, as the women around her nodded in sympathetic assent....
View ArticleThe 5 Reasons You’re Not Having The Best Sex Of Your Life
This article was originally published on MindBodyGreen.com. I have been teaching people about sexuality for two decades. Consistently, when I ask people what they think they need in order to feel...
View ArticleThe #1 Thing That Will Improve Your Relationships (yep, all of them)
It requires a lot of energy to deal with relationship woes, be they partner, family, friendships or work relationships. Research shows that relationship troubles can mean less productivity and lack of...
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